Let me give you the gun needed to kill Disrespect, which is slowly killing Lawn Bowls and Lawn Bowls Clubs. As culture changes with new generations and new technology creating a society of total disrespect, so also does this disrespect affect our sport and fellow player. What we accept in daily life results in changes of our more agreeable character strength. A sincere respect for others..
First lets understand why the recent "Lost of Respect" in society has reached the point where the U.S President attacks and name calling of individuals as well as disrespect attacks on countries and allies is acceptable. Today, with our the computer and cellphone we are at a distance from the individual behind them. On a bus everyone is with their phones and like reading a newspaper or watching TV, it does not concern other around them. But it does, because as it is introduced into our society and daily life it also bleeds into our the sports.
In this week World Cup Soccer play a "Red Card" was given to a player for putting his hand over his mouth. He was expelled from the game and could have been expelled from the tournament. WHY ?. Because it is ok to swear, insult and attack others, as long as you are not caught. It is ok to rob a Bank as long as you are not caught. In Lawn Bowls where we has rules (much like laws) and controlling individuals like umpires (much like Police) and club executives we do and accept things which are now ok in our daily life... If we are not caught.
My wife uses the computer to play Scrabble and when I saw 5 games of scrabble on her gaming website, I asked "Why 5 ?" to which she replied "I have had as many as 10 waiting to be played. She explained that sometimes she will wait several days for a player to make a move. Disrespect to those you're playing with. I play Domino late at night and often someone of the 4 players to a game has moved and then gone off to do something else. We sit and wait for several minutes for them to move. Disrespect for us waiting and for the game administrators as when the game is over and we have all left the table; those individuals are still sitting at the table 10 ro 20 minutes afterward because they are away from the game..
Last year while coaching a Novice doing her first Novice Single Finals I was not aware that the Provincial Federation President and the Provincial Chief Umpire sitting within a few feet of this Novice Player on the mat; were doing a loud discussion or private conversation. Both of these individuals are elite players and know the rules of the game. But their lack of "Respect" for the player on the mat directly in front of them only show that they neither paid any attention to how their interruptions affected her game and performance. It show the total lack of respect common in society and our sport and toward fellow players.. In the photo (right) from "Youtube video " of the New Zealand Regional Single's Final, where are the spectators. A lot of empty seats behind the two players (Look down at the 2nd photo (below) and check out the video (of that screen capture) and see all the peoplepresence but off to the left and right of game play.
When after the game she explained this problem I explained that although they were provincial exectives deserving of respect, she should have confronted them. How ?.. Take her Bowls Gun and Blast them. What Bowl's Gun ? Answer - "The Mat" The player has 2 minutes to perform their delivery and if in stepping off the mat because of a distraction the time limit is exceeded; their coach should expect an extension of the game time limit. Also the player should expect the game officials and club executives to address that problem if they are watching the game..
I explained to her that she should have step off the mat, turned directly to them and waited until they stop talking and then return to the mat and do her best delivery. I explained that if the game umpire saw her standing there it would be the responsibility of the umpire to come over and address the two individuals and warn them that they could be requested to move or leave. Yes the Game Umpire is expected to do that.
The "Mat" is the Gun to kill "Disrespect" In our game as new members see a total lack of respect for fellow players by club members, we find their opinion of our club and our sport also lacking; and being proud individuals, they would seek out another sport the following year. It is the same if sitting at a table with an individual who is always using foul language (Fuck, Shit etc) as we eventually would get up and avoid those people. (my use of those two words caused a reaction in You, so also an incident of disrespect causes a reaction and opinion of our sport).
The rules of the game of Lawn Bowls request that the club executives and game officials (club and umpires) not allow spectators within 3 meters of the boundies of the game in play or the mat location, and that all players respect the player who is on the mat in the middle of a performance. Even players who are on neighbouring rink but in the Line of Delivery of a player on the neighbouring rink is expected to not move. When you are on the mat and your delivery is interrupted by something you should step of the mat and redo your Pre-Mat preparations. Very often the skip is giving instructions to a player while they are doing their delivery. This lack of respect by skips is the same as a player having done a good delivery and moved the jack to give their team a point or two not seeing the skip give an indication of a "Great Shot". (if not verbal then with a sign of point gained or body language)
Yesterday while travelling home I was told of an incident where the skip was talking to their players between ends of play and a player from the neighbouring rink (or green) came over to their rink and said "Would you two stop talking so much", I explained that this individual is a winter curler who bowls during the summer and expect the same rules of respect applied in both games.
However, I believe that in the sport of "Curling' it is the club or rink administration that is addressing this problem. In Lawn Bowls the game rules expect the umpire to address the problem. In another sport , Petanque, because France wants the sport of Petanque in the next Olymaptic in Paris, they have introduced the Red, Yellow and Green cards. (Green is used for a stop timer)
Because in this incident of a "Club Invitation Tournament"; there were a lot of newer players doing their first year of club game play and the not knowing about the respect expected by experience lawn bowler; may have done things as a distraction. Also the clubs need to build this education as a part of their bowl's education. However, the method and words of the offended player also show a lack of respect.

























